Unlock Your Sex Appeal: The One Habit You Need to Quit
Hey brother, your Happy Man Coach Charlie McKeever her and today I want to share some golden nuggets from my personal mentor and friend, Steve Horsmon, the mastermind behind GoodGuys2GreatMen.
Let’s dive into one of Steve's teachings that really struck a chord with me in my own journey to becoming a calm, confident, grounded man, and I believe it’ll resonate with you too.
Stop Being So Vulnerable with Your Woman
Wait, what? Stop being vulnerable? I know, it sounds counterintuitive, right? But stick with me for a minute. Steve isn’t saying to bottle up your feelings or pretend like you’re a robot. Vulnerability is crucial, and even Steve is a big fan of it, just like Brené Brown. But there’s a fine line between healthy vulnerability and what Steve calls "emotional vomiting."
Over-analyzing, over-explaining, and over-sharing your insecurities and fears can turn your relationship into a therapy session, making you an emotional burden rather than an attractive partner.
Think about it—constantly seeking reassurance and trying to fix everything through endless conversations can be exhausting for both of you. Instead, keep a bit of mystery and distance. It’s not about playing games; it’s about finding balance.
Start Channeling Your Vulnerability Towards Other High-Quality Men
This was a game-changer for me. As men, we often try to unload all our emotional baggage onto our partners, thinking it’ll bring us closer. But in reality, it can do the opposite.
It's important that we share our emotional load with other men who understand and have walked the same path. These are men who can offer genuine support and guidance without the emotional entanglement that comes with a romantic relationship.
By connecting with other high-quality men, we can grow calmer, more confident, and yes, more attractive. It’s about owning our stuff—feeling our feelings without being dominated by them.
Confidence comes from within, from being grounded in who you are, not from external validation.
Take the Next Step
So, what’s the takeaway here?
Stop over-sharing your insecurities with your partner. Start channeling that energy into a community of supportive men who get it. And most importantly, own your emotions and confidence from within.
Looking for a community of like-minded men? Join the Happy Man Coaching Community or the GoodGuys2GreatMen Live Coaching Round Table Facebook group to connect, share, and grow with other men on the same path.
Ready to increase your sex appeal? Schedule a one-on-one coaching call with me, Charlie McKeever, and let’s embark on the journey together.
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Stay strong, stay connected, and keep moving forward on your journey from nervous husband to sexually appealing man.
Much love, brother,
Charlie McKeever
Your Happy Man Coach
HappyManCoaching.com
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